Blindness by Anthony De Mello

"May I become your disciple"?

"You are only a disciple because your eyes are closed. The day you open them you will see there is nothing you can learn from me or anyone".

"What then is a Master for"?

"To make you see the uselessness of having one".


MORSEL:
The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes. -- Marcel Proust

The base on all hypnotherapy session is reframing said Yan Nurindra in his facebook status. Now i remember if i have to look at all of the session that i conducted, i realize that all therapy is about changing their point of view about something. In one of my session treating a traumatized client came to me lets call her Lusy, She has been traumized and cannot have a quality relationship with her friend. After a session with me which i put him into deep state and regress her back and change her point of view about the incident that happen. And it works like magic. She is having a good time now. 


Sometimes dealing with a problem can mean to get away from the problem and look it from far away. I remember a simile from Ajahn Brahm. He said that most people can't deal with their problem because they are too close to the problem. It just like when we put our hand in front of our eyes. We can't see anything but the problem. But, if we just take our hand a little further from our eyes, we will now see more and eventually we can still see our hand. And when we can see the problem without getting emotional, without getting too close to the problem, It will be much easier for us to find the answer to the problem we have. In NLP we can also change the view of our problem by changing the word problem to challenge. When we see our situation as a challenge we will have more control of it, we will not easily depressed by that situation. 


A short english article, sorry for bad english. :)




Windalfin Culmen
Consultant Hypnotist

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